Excuse my brief pause in typing...

But i am taking a week off for some personal reasons. i love u guys and wish u a happy holidays!

This is just wrong, folks!

It makes me sick when people try to push their bigoted and racist views on normal regular people who are just trying to live their lives...its just wrong. A couple who are madly in love went into the Justice of the Peace and couldn't get married...because they were a biracial couple! The "concerned" judge thought their children would face ridicule.

That's some bull! I think that if two adults want to get married , or date or do whatever they should be allowed, period! Sometimes I wish that some folks just learned to mind their own business...like my Grannie says "If you cant say anything nice, then just don't say anything" Check this out:

Targe' for bridesmaids?

Mossimo Black Plus Crossover V Neck Empire Dress in Red. $33.99

I decided to go with a few bridesmaids cus a party isn't a party without your girlfriends. They are by your side in your hour of need and make you laugh. Unless, you are having a super intimate ultra romantic just us two elope style event...having your friends there can turn ur party into a blast! however, its just not fair to be a budget bride and make other people dish out major dough.

So i was doing my online surf and i noticed Target as a low budget way to get cute bridesmaid dresses? First, there are tons of simple styles in an assortment of colors so your ladies in waiting can wear their dresses to other events after your wedding. Second Target has pretty good sizing options for curvy gals.Last but not least, with prices under $50 its a steal that will keep ur gals smiling. SCORE!

This dress is from the Merona Collection and its too cute! $29.99 on sale right now.

lovin this: Animoto

I found something pretty cool for brides who don't have enough money to get a video and picture package. I am seriously considering this for my own wedding. Put your pictures on Animoto.com and tada, you have super nice video to view! Or if you do have clips like if a family member taped the ceremony you can add it too!

Create dvds of your wedding for next to nothing so even though you couldn't have a professional video person u can still remember that special day for years to come!

Check Em out: http://animoto.com/

Khloe Kardashian looked amazing!

Well Khloe Kardashian (sister of Kim Kardashian and star of Keepin up with the Kardashians) just got married to Lamar Odom (he plays for the Lakers) and she totally rocked her Vera Wang dress. Everyone looked amazing. Check it out: wanna see more? Check out the latest issue of OK magazine.

Updates: Trying not to stress out

sorry its been a while but life happens but i'm back so here is whats going on right now:

• Really getting out of the wedding obsession phase. I have realized that if the cake isn't the perfect shade of pink its ok.
• Trying to find out what I really need versus want. Need= a hotel room cus we don't live at the location. want= a lavish 6 star penthouse suite.
• Trying to stay in budget.

.99 cent wedding?

wow, I heard of a budget but this is too cute/ interesting /beautiful! Nine couples got married yesterday (9-9-9) at the 99 Cent Only store! It was part of a promotional wedding sweepstakes where the couples get a 5 min ceremony and then go on a honeymoon on the 99 cent store's dime. I think thats super cool! I kind of warms my heart to see that people are still doing nice things for other people. Viva la 99 Cents Only Store and congrats to the nine couples! check out this clip:

My DIY Wedding Day

I found this on My DIY Wedding Day and I thought whoa this is a super easy way to package favors, great for a spring or summer time wedding. My DIY Wedding Day Shared via AddThis

Ways I'm saving on my wedding.

After reading these articles about how to save wedding cost via Smart Money: 1. 10 things Wedding Planners Won't Tell You. 2. They'll Never Know: 8 hidden ways to cut wedding costs. 3. Costco Brides: Battle of Warehouse Weddings 4. And finally, Your Own Celebrity-Style Wedding

I thought about some of the stuff I was buying and it made me wonder "Am I being frugal enough?" Now some of these articles are a bit general. Most of the local jeweler stores have warranties on their jewelery that last longer than 6 months. Plus, there are tons of sales. Not all newly beginner wedding planners will be complete goofs cus that will destroy their business cus they need great referrals. Plus most vendors are willing to work with people on a budget.

BUT it is a well written article and has alot of sense to it. It doesn't make sense to not read the fine print on your contracts or to not get pics of events from new even planners.Or to buy that $3000 dress when your whole budget is $4000!

I think its all about using common sense, thats all. Knowing a good deal when you see it and knowing when some thing is too good to be true. As a bride to be myself I can only go by my experiences and what other people around are doing or have done.

Here are some of my plans to save some serious cash: *Making very simple favors: getting cookies from Costco, Bjs, Sam's Club, Etsy or my local grocery store- Reason? cus its just cheaper than going to a fancy bakery but its quicker then baking them myself. * Getting a calligrapher to do one or two invites then going to Kinkos or Staples and copying them. Reason? Cus I love the look but I just can't pay someone to do the tedious job of writing out all of my invites. * Doing my own make up. Reason? I dont wear alot of make up but I know how to really apply it if I want to. Plus, I wont put to much on. * Buying my bridal shoes from Payless. * Using two types of flower and going to a local wholesaler or discount warehouse. Hydrangeas and roses. Reason? The hydrangea takes up alot of space so it will look lush without the hefty price tag. *Micheals, Walmart...enuff said. more tips to come.

Fancy Shamacy: Tips on Quick Cute Nails

This is too pimp. Dashing Diva style,Three Faces of Pink

I rarely have time to do my nails...I am just too busy. However, i love the look of fresh out of the nail salon manicures and pedicures. So whats a gal to do? well here are some options for my busy brides and brides to be.

1. E.L.F. nail polish: why? Cus its only one dollar! yup $1! So its safe to say you can afford this plus the colors can go from extreme (Fire Coral) to classic bridal (Pearl Pink). Great for the DIYer.www.eyeslipsface.com/

2. Dashing Diva: I saw them in another blog (Brides Magazine) and I agree, Dashing Diva is supa fierce! The full cover nails are amazing. Unlike the fake looking nail press on of the past, Dashing Diva's Tailor fit nails are real looking and have tons of versatility. You can be a very natural bride and go for a simple French manicure (Natural or French) or surprise everyone with a full on bling fest on your digits (Glamour or Charmed)! Plus the price for this miracle starts at $13-$17.www.dashingdiva.com

3. If you tend to be more exotic or just want to try something unexpected, try Henna or Mehendi. This Bollywood trend is temporary (only lasting 1-4 weeks), painless (no needles just a paste) and very beautiful. Usually done during the bridal preparation, this is an amazing way to get ur hands noticed.

4. Not a DIYer or just dont have time to sit and wait in a salon across town? Cool, call a nail taxi! In fact, Nail Taxi is the best way to handle quick day of beauty needs or just an alternative to the typical stripper bachelorette party. Nail taxi will come to your home or hotel or where and do the work for you. Based in the DMV with some locations in Los Angeles and Chicago , Nail Taxi will take you where you need to go in style. http://nailtaxi.com/