Some Guys dont have a romantic bone in their body. No matter what hints you leave they almost always mess it up. Sometimes you outright tell them what you want and they give you everything BUT that...Its like they have a self sabotage mechanism! Well if this sounds like your Fiance or this sounds like you, I'm here to help. Cus nothing is more undesirable then an unromantic person ( maybe a messy person...I'm guilty but i'm getting better). Why? If you are paying the bills, taking care of personal hygiene, reliable in daily things then why is it important to be romantic? Because without romance you become a good roommate. Thats why. Not a hot stud or sexy mama...a good roommate/friend. not sexy.
This is very true in serious relationships. When two people become serious alot can change. When love is fresh and minty, everyone is a Casanova. I'm a Casanova, you are a Casanova your mom is even a love cupid. The world seems so wonderful and vast. However as it ages the daily grind can make everything seem so lackluster. Even proposals can seem weak if not presented right.
And yes you can just pop the question on one knee which is great but lets make it memorable. Think about it, this is the story your lady will tell all of her life.
Yea times are hard so here are ways to pop the question with out the cost of a small car:
1. Invite her to your place and make dinner ( or order out from her favorite restaurant) put some candles in her favorite color ( HELLO YOU CAN GET CANDLES ANYWHERE) then hide the ring in a covered plate. Decorate the plate with a rose, red roses mean love. Tell her that desserts in there. eat your food like normal and then tell her that you gotta try some dessert. Tada..pop the question!
2. Call her immediate family (they must like you) tell them you have a surprise for her and you want them to be there. Take her some where like a park. Have her family waiting in their cars close by. Bend your knee like tradition but then stop and say "you know what some one should see this" call her family and then propose.
3. give her a massage after work and tie the ring to the massage oil. put the massage oil closer to her then you and ask if she can grab the oil then say "whats that dangling from the bottle" tada!
4. Write her a note "Will you marry me?" and send some flowers to her job then wait till she calls or call her.
5. On her off day, get up a take her to the nearest hotel ( book early= good price)for two days. Saturday and Sunday are good. Pack goodies like a champagne bottle or sparkling cider(ur local grocery store has a great variety of cider not just apple) , flutes, a box of chocolates ( even Hersey Kisses) and toss everything on the bed while she is in the shower then tada pop the question.
6. write her a song...but not a sappy love song. its cheesy and very typical. Write her a funny one thats short at the end sing "so will you marry me?"
7. Go walking somewhere really pretty like a pond, a local shopping strip anywhere. begin a discussion about anything that will not lead to a fight... weather, music, fashion ( "why do women wear ..., what do you think?) , sports, remember whens, movies and TV are all good talk starters. Then stop the convo abruptly and get on one knee saying "Stop right there I really need to ask you something.."
There are many ways to do it. But remember that the whole point is to be romantic...caring, considerate and passionate. You can have a million dollars or negative $35, its about your approach. Be ready for a yes or a no either way its good. Of course a yes is good but a no can be good too. Would you really want to marry someone who isnt ready?
So there are my tips...Good luck and lots of love!
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