Wednesday, May 27, 2009

Hitched or Ditched: Ditched.

Wow talk about shocking ending. I feel really bad for the first couple of Hitched or Ditched but in the end I think they did the right thing. I mean no one approved of their marriage. Plus they had different ideas of what commitment was. They really weren't compatible, which is sad but sometimes thats what happens in relationships. They had enough love for each other but they weren't in the same place. Plus being rushed to save all of their issues in a week didn't help either. It did however give them "clear eyes" to see pass the lovey dovey feelings.

So whats the big lesson, here? Here's five I have learned:

  1. Don't party too hard. If your hubby says its time to go, ladies drop the beer its time to go. Its more about respecting your significant others feelings.
  2. Listen to your families' advice, they have been on the earth longer then you and they love you . Hear their side and then make your own decision.
  3. Evaluate your relationship. Go to pre martial counseling or have open and honest convos together about your feelings and expectations.
  4. Be willing to compromise. look no one is perfect, we all have flaws so we can't be so hard on our partners.
  5. Know when to stay and when to go. Some people can fix their issues and some people cant but the the only way to tell is honesty and time.
I hope the other couples have better luck. The first lady made an awesome bride she was flawless.

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